I love u veri much but I won’t change myself so that I make u feel gud or better about urself. If I do dat then I won’t be doing either one of us justice because we will be living delusional lives. I need to encourage you to spread your wings, explore who you are and all you can be ,ad yes, you have to do the same for me even if means you have a sleepless night wondering how I am fairing..because I would probably feel the same way as you but I trust you, I believe in you, in us most importantly our love..

You know lately the past has been making its way into my life…sure its not my own but its somebody’s close to me therefore its really affecting me.
Normally when we are told that our present actions will take a toll on our futures, we often think that “it won’t happen to us”
Well I got news for you, it can and it will! I definately know what I am talking about..
*sigh*

On my way from Thamaga today, I was standing in the bus because theere were no seats left. An old man was in front of me and suddenly this young man stood uP, got his attention and donated his seat to him. The old man gratefully sat down.I was “wowed” especially that in this day and age its all about me, myself and I. I couldn’t help but wonder how many young people could still do that!

You know how they say when you invest something you’ll get something back, like a return multiplied? Well I think behavior like that will definately render that young man blessed in future.

You know it’s very easy to tell a person what they can, should or shouldn’t do when they ask for advice from you, especially when it comes to relationships. It’s so easy to rage about how if it was you then you “wouldn’t stand up for that!” Yes, we all go through the same situations in our lives, the difference might be the time that we went through it but what we fail to remeber is just because we are facing the same situation, it doesn’t mean that we will react the same.
So instead of judging and voicing out our own opinions, we should instead lend a hearing eye, hold the hand of our loved ones as they pour their heart out to us because most likely at that time, they don’t really need our advice, they just need somebody to listen to them.
A lesson learnt hei..now I pray that the Lord helps me tp take my own advice.

I had such a hectic day today…helping my friend with the preparations and celebrations for the birthday celebration they held for their mom’s 55th celebration..then going with another home so that i just visit her and see where she stays…only to find that she had a baby shower which she was attending! Food, food oh glorious food…now my tummy feels like its going to break in two, lol…
But its been a beautiful day. Now I am just chilling, watching 1Gospel and just relaxing…What else is there to say? good night.

A friend of mine recently told me that he has moved out of home to be on his own..I was genuiwenly happy for him but I got also sad. I was happy because he was taking the next step in his life but sad because I kept thinking about how hard it might be for us to see each other since he was moving out of the neighbourhood where we both grew up.

That got me thinkng; how many times in our lives do we actually hold on to the past, relieving it in our heads as if that will make some changes to it?!

It is so easy for us to continuosly live our lives in a backward motion instead of choosing to move forward. By being continously sad, I didn’t even think of the positives tha will come out. Of him moving; a chance for me ro meet new people as I visit him for example…
So armed with this new revelation I shall move forward..easier said than done? Well difficult doesn’t mean impossible!

Well today is my very last day as an intern at the Department of Information Services, specifically at Kutlwano magazine. My feelings towards this last chapter at my stay there are very vague you know.
Sure sadness is some of the feelings are accompanied by sadness but I am also quite excited and optimistic, I am begining a new chapter in my life and that is very exciting.
Perhaps it hasn’t really sunk in you know, who knows vut for now, more than anything I am quite grateful for everything that I have learnt from that place, atleast now I live with some work experience under my arms

A very warm and great morning to you all..
Time seems to have moved at a pace that I surely don’t understand.

Just watch this space

hey there, i ahvent writen in a while, i gues slife has just kind of taken over!
but just because i haven’t written here in a while doesn’t mean i haven’t written at all.
there’s thsi poem that i think i am going to stick in this blog, it spoke to my heart, like a lot…
so here goes, wish me luck.